SOME OF YOU ARE STUBBORN, BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE

The madness of emotional love has a way of frying the brain and suspending sound reason.

There are those who will hear such caution and still think they are wise. They will continue in that deadly direction and passion until the day of regret. Even though they have seen how badly such promiscuous ways turned out for their siblings, friends, and neighbors, somehow Satan still convinces them that their own sin is special.

Please, don’t let one day steal your destiny.

To our young sisters in Christ, you shouldn’t even need this caution. You should have no dealings with a man who has not demonstrated responsible behavior by clearly stating his marital intentions and meeting your parents — talk less of going to bed with him.

Premarital sex is sin. It is wrong. It is not the will of God, and it does not end well. Rise above these promiscuous tendencies and worldly trends.
Hasn’t the Bible clearly told you to keep off?

There is dignity in living a sanctified life. Don’t be deceived by red flowers and monetary gifts. That is never close to the worth of your body.

If our world would simply learn responsibility, we would avoid much of the evil we see today.
If you love a lady, keep off her body. Do your research. Make your proposal. Go see her parents. Pay the bride price. Get married. Then enjoy all the intimacy you desire — within covenant. All the body will be yours, any day, any time!

And what is wrong with some of you ladies? No self control? A beautiful queen like you? Do you know your worth?Let the man go through the process! Stop selling yourself cheap. Sex does not guarantee marriage. That is a lie from hell.

We only hope you will hear this and choose God’s way over your emotions and worldly standards. Don’t cry tomorrow after hearing this today. Don’t allow yourself to be used and dumped. If you hope to marry someday, shouldn’t it be honorable to preserve your body for the man who goes through the process? Think!

Just one day can ruin your life. Believe that.

Sex is not a Valentine’s Day gift. It’s a treasure in marriage.

YOU OWE NO BOYFRIEND SEX; YOU OWE HIM PRAYER AND THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST. Full stop!

I caution you, dear sisters, because the risk is often heavier on your side. You have the power to say NO. Use it wisely today, or regret it tomorrow.

May the Lord keep you.

— Pastor DaniSOME OF YOU ARE STUBBORN, BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO BEel Nyah

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